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Ok today was just a clusterfuck of clusterfucks.

achy, headachy, tetchy and then sleep deprived by a blast of insomnia. Crawl to class, and G, my classmate who's ok but can be somewhat high strung, neurotic and perfectionist to the nth degree snaps at me for wanting to use my jotnot app to get info to our teammates and she goes "MAYBE IT WORKS FOR YOU BUT NOT FOR ME." Cuts me off. I go "ok, not having this fight."

Our group meeting goes ok but she monopolized the paperwork and whinged on how to, and what, to fill in. The directions are unclear and she's whiiiiiining because she's upset her prev. group lost marks ( minimally) and she's at the edge of tears over it. unable to cope with the idea she's not perfect. Then she's boooohoooooing that her daddy's gonna be so mad she's buying a ticket to Vancouver and how her brother and dad are fighting wah wah wah.

It was her "wah I'm the only one suffering So!" that started setting me on edge.

We go to this stupid meeting to get the sign off on our cute cuddly action plan of work that has an official form that needs approval. Except the dumb coordinator has double-triple booked herself and we've had no lunch and our classes are so tightly scheduled that we're watching precious work/eat time go "laters!" we...I....make the executive decision to let the pregnant one go off and work and eat, and we wait. For all her damn lecturing, she's fucked us royally and G is snitting away and everyone's telling me to just play nice.

I try, but once again in the meeting G snaps me off, and I LOSE IT. Not throwing shit lose it but I lay it all out on the line of G's behaviour and the blond bint's inconsiderateness in making us wait.

Blond Bint ( the coordinator) has the stones to tell me how I should be ever so grateful that she's deigned to meet us early and how accomodating my team is to my schedule. MY SCHEDULE? How's this all on me again? I said "I'm sorry but your paperwork is unclear and you kept us waiting and I didn't come here to be micromanaged by someone whos job duty, I seriously question.

She looks at me like this is simply insanity, everyone surely does extensive getting in touch with their feeeewings before a group project right?

I'm basically told I'm the arsehole of the year. I decide to be quiet, and calm and just....disinterested. I go to my happy place. G then flips out on me. AGAIN.

Because it's apparently all me, and not G being a dictatorial bitch crying and demanding and not listening to a damn word anyone says. I call her on it, going "you talk like you have all the answers and you don't listen to people, you jump in, cut them off, and I'm sick of hearing it."

I smacked her verbally down. Back off. I was angry for the wasted time of mine and my colleagues from people singing the "we're so awesomely perfect!" song.

I get one group person some documents she needed, using said awesome app, talked to her for a bit, she's new to the BIG CITY and so young and a bit sheltered. She lives a couple blocks away. Seems like a decent girl. She missed her VIA train home for the holiday weekend so I found her a greyhound option and walked her to the bus depot and saw her off on the bus. Because I'm not actually an asshole.

Brit tells me that everyone was thrilled I laid a smackdown on G. That half the class has felt the want to do so. That later with pregnant girl, Brit said the coordinator is going to talk to G, under the guise of talking to all of us? because its clear G has some issues with control and working in a group. Helps that G has repeatedly snapped people off, including in front of the coordinator. That the coordinator doesn't think I have the issues. we shall see.

But holy fucking frackity fuck.

It was 7pm before I got one single morsel of food, in part so many thanks to bint's running so late. Gotta love that shit.

And I'm so over everyone else telling me its ME with the problem when i go "Um.. its quite rude to make us all wait 20 min because you insist on a meeting and double booked." Bint goes "WAH! I HAVE 200 Groups to meeeet!" well, that's your job and your issue and it took us 4 tries to get a hold of you so exactly how am I to blame for being reasonable and proactive that most of our group is travelling or away right up to this deadline for meeting you? DO TELL.

(no subject)

Ok today was just a clusterfuck of clusterfucks.

achy, headachy, tetchy and then sleep deprived by a blast of insomnia. Crawl to class, and G, my classmate who's ok but can be somewhat high strung, neurotic and perfectionist to the nth degree snaps at me for wanting to use my jotnot app to get info to our teammates and she goes "MAYBE IT WORKS FOR YOU BUT NOT FOR ME." Cuts me off. I go "ok, not having this fight."

Our group meeting goes ok but she monopolized the paperwork and whinged on how to, and what, to fill in. The directions are unclear and she's whiiiiiining because she's upset her prev. group lost marks ( minimally) and she's at the edge of tears over it. unable to cope with the idea she's not perfect. Then she's boooohoooooing that her daddy's gonna be so mad she's buying a ticket to Vancouver and how her brother and dad are fighting wah wah wah.

It was her "wah I'm the only one suffering So!" that started setting me on edge.

We go to this stupid meeting to get the sign off on our cute cuddly action plan of work that has an official form that needs approval. Except the dumb coordinator has double-triple booked herself and we've had no lunch and our classes are so tightly scheduled that we're watching precious work/eat time go "laters!" we...I....make the executive decision to let the pregnant one go off and work and eat, and we wait. For all her damn lecturing, she's fucked us royally and G is snitting away and everyone's telling me to just play nice.

I try, but once again in the meeting G snaps me off, and I LOSE IT. Not throwing shit lose it but I lay it all out on the line of G's behaviour and the blond bint's inconsiderateness in making us wait.

Blond Bint ( the coordinator) has the stones to tell me how I should be ever so grateful that she's deigned to meet us early and how accomodating my team is to my schedule. MY SCHEDULE? How's this all on me again? I said "I'm sorry but your paperwork is unclear and you kept us waiting and I didn't come here to be micromanaged by someone whos job duty, I seriously question.

She looks at me like this is simply insanity, everyone surely does extensive getting in touch with their feeeewings before a group project right?

I'm basically told I'm the arsehole of the year. I decide to be quiet, and calm and just....disinterested. I go to my happy place. G then flips out on me. AGAIN.

Because it's apparently all me, and not G being a dictatorial bitch crying and demanding and not listening to a damn word anyone says. I call her on it, going "you talk like you have all the answers and you don't listen to people, you jump in, cut them off, and I'm sick of hearing it."

I smacked her verbally down. Back off. I was angry for the wasted time of mine and my colleagues from people singing the "we're so awesomely perfect!" song.

I get one group person some documents she needed, using said awesome app, talked to her for a bit, she's new to the BIG CITY and so young and a bit sheltered. She lives a couple blocks away. Seems like a decent girl. She missed her VIA train home for the holiday weekend so I found her a greyhound option and walked her to the bus depot and saw her off on the bus. Because I'm not actually an asshole.

Brit tells me that everyone was thrilled I laid a smackdown on G. That half the class has felt the want to do so. That later with pregnant girl, Brit said the coordinator is going to talk to G, under the guise of talking to all of us? because its clear G has some issues with control and working in a group. Helps that G has repeatedly snapped people off, including in front of the coordinator. That the coordinator doesn't think I have the issues. we shall see.

But holy fucking frackity fuck.

It was 7pm before I got one single morsel of food, in part so many thanks to bint's running so late. Gotta love that shit.

And I'm so over everyone else telling me its ME with the problem when i go "Um.. its quite rude to make us all wait 20 min because you insist on a meeting and double booked." Bint goes "WAH! I HAVE 200 Groups to meeeet!" well, that's your job and your issue and it took us 4 tries to get a hold of you so exactly how am I to blame for being reasonable and proactive that most of our group is travelling or away right up to this deadline for meeting you? DO TELL.